For the love of ‘Buffy’

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As with any favorite, the TV series we love, those we come back to time and again, tend to say a lot about us. They remind us of who and where we were when we first saw them and help us chart how we’ve grown and changed over the years. They become guides, informing our view of the world or just helping us navigate it, be it through much-needed escapism, prompted introspection, or emotional catharsis. Welcoming a show week after week into our homes, sharing years with a group of imaginary friends, it’s little surprise we form such strong attachments, be it to a character, an actor, or a series.

I suppose, looking back, I was predisposed to love Buffy the Vampire Slayer. I was raised on a steady diet of The Hobbit, Little Women, and The Princess Bride; Christmas at my grandparents’ meant watching Star Wars and long car rides were perfect opportunities for DnD. An at times campy, at times deadly serious fantasy series full of entertaining, funny, imaginative characters would probably have always hit me in the sweet spot. But while I continue to search out great television, and while my list of favorites keeps growing, there’s something special about Buffy that separates it from the rest.

I don’t actually remember when I started watching the show. I remember waiting with baited breath for “Once More with Feeling”, the musical episode, I remember season 4 as appointment viewing, and I remember the Christmas present from my brothers of the season 1 box set that started my DVD library and penchant for commentary tracks. But I don’t remember when I first dove in with the series that has become one of my absolute favorites, and perhaps that’s helped cement its place- it’s pretty much always been there.

Buffy is the first series I remember sharing with my family and friends. I watched it live, of course, but I’ve also rewatched the series many times with various friends just discovering it. It was common ground for my sister and me as we transitioned from bitter enemies (as so many siblings start out) to close friends. By the time I left for college, we could converse almost entirely in references or lace inside jokes into random conversations through simple word choice (and we both made sure to never sign yearbooks “Have a nice summer!”). In undergrad, Mondays were Buffy night. My friends and I would take over the dorm lounge and watch for hours, some fans like myself, some watching the show for the first time. When there wasn’t time for that anymore, my DVD shelf became a lending library, a way to try to spread the enjoyment I’d experienced to others I cared about.

Buffy the Vampire Slayer writers

Buffy the Vampire Slayer writers Marti Noxon, David Fury, Tracey Forbes, Jane Espenson, Doug Petrie, and creator Joss Whedon

Sharing a beloved series with friends can be a crapshoot and it’s easy to become overdramatic, something so many of us have been guilty of. “Here is something that shaped me, that represents a part of me and what I value in the world. I hope you like it!” Because of course no matter the series, no matter the friend, they probably won’t have the same experience you did. They bring different circumstances and backgrounds, different priorities and expectations. When the risk pays off, and they see what you do, you get someone new to share with and the fun of discovery-by-proxy as you relive your initial viewing through their eyes. When it doesn’t, though, it can be incredibly disappointing. It’s easy to turn the disconnect into a litmus test, “If you don’t get this, you don’t get me”. And sometimes it’s true. But more often it’s not and the other person has something else they love just as much they’re equally puzzled to find you indifferent towards. That’s the thing with favorites- in the end, qualitative analysis is all but useless. There needs to be a far more personal connection.

One significant such connection for me is that Buffy the Vampire Slayer sparked my love of television. Sure, I watched plenty before then, from Sesame Street growing up to enough Boy Meets World that I fully understand the upcoming excitement for Girl Meets World, but I had never approached television critically, as more than basic entertainment. As my appetite for the series grew, as well as my curiosity about it, I learned about the process of television creation, about costume design and table reads and stunt choreography. I learned to pick up on the voice of specific writers and to value the eye of certain directors. I started to see television shows as not just entertaining diversion, but as highly complicated story-telling machines, the daily work of hundreds of people that strive to balance any number of responsibilities and who, when everything goes right, the stars align, and we all get really lucky, manage to create art.

Then there’s the show itself. From the get-go, the fully realized characters and world of Buffy treats viewers with respect, something missing from an alarming amount of programming, with an approach just as accessible to the studio’s desired teen market and creator Joss Whedon’s larger intended demographic. For those just looking for a fun hour, as I initially was, there’s plenty of humor and action. When you’re ready to look deeper, however, most episodes also function as morality plays, paralleling all-too-relatable human struggles with monstrous foes to be slain and reassuring viewers that they’re not alone- sometimes, a bad grade or a breakup or an unwanted burden really does feel like the end of the world.

Buffy the Vampire Slayer creator Joss Whedon and season 5 cast

Buffy the Vampire Slayer creator Joss Whedon and season 5 cast

Then there’s the wonderful character work. Each episode’s dialogue crackles with wit and rings of truth and, while references are thrown left and right, the specific Whedony vernacular somehow keeps the younger characters from feeling overwritten or unrealistically erudite. From the central quartet of Buffy, Willow, Xander, and Giles to the myriad supporting characters, everyone feels relatable. There’s a premium on courage, loyalty, and intelligence, but also on fallibility. Each character makes significant mistakes. They let down and betray their friends. They get lost. But whether that path takes an episode or a season, they manage to come out the other side, changed but still striving. This earned optimism is incredibly appealing and something missing from the increasingly dour world of prestige drama at the moment.

This theme, along with the series’ dedication to consequence, makes Buffy a particularly effective and affecting series. Unlike so much other fantasy or escapist fare, everything that happens in the series matters, from apocalyptic battles to tiny character moments. Whedon is known for his ruthless willingness to kill beloved characters, but as much as we may dread this, it makes his shows stronger and more truthful. Rather than teaching audiences to disengage from the events onscreen, as so many unwittingly do by guaranteeing that the characters the audience cares for always scrape through, Buffy fairly early on establishes that loss is a reality in this world, as it is in ours. It’s an important message, particularly for younger viewers, and one that crystallizes fans’ affinity for the show, making each moment all the more precious.

From the shockingly high stakes and wonderfully memorable dialogue to the immensely relatable characters and heartening themes of family, hope, and perseverance, Buffy the Vampire Slayer was the perfect series to get me interested in television and it’s just as great a choice for viewers now. I hope generations of young women and men will continue to watch this series and have something like the experience I did. The same shared references and secret language. The same exhilaration and silly laughs and stinging tears. The same appreciation that piques curiosity into just what television is and the craft necessary from so many different people to bring an episode together. To some, Buffy the Vampire Slayer is the greatest television series ever made. To others, it’s not even in the conversation. For me, the distinction doesn’t really matter- it’s my favorite, and that’s far more meaningful.

Kate Kulzick

By Kate Kulzick

Kate is a violinist by day, TV-aholic by night, and film geek by somewhere around dawn. While attending UIUC, she earned a Masters Degree in Violin Performance and a Schrute Buck in a Pop Culture Trivia Contest; of the two, so far only the latter has hung on her wall. Her favorite movies are The Princess Bride, Casablanca, and The Third Man and her favorite TV shows are Buffy the Vampire Slayer, The Wire, and Arrested Development.

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5 Responses to For the love of ‘Buffy’

  1. David Fiore March 1, 2013 at 3:59 pm

    nice work! I came to Buffy much later, as one of those friends introduced to the series by a longtime aficionado. I took to it immediately, even during the shakier parts of season one, and by the time we’d finished watching “Passion”, I was seriously hooked…

    Love your reflections on the impact these beloved series can play in our lives – and the limits of qualitative criticism. For me, the eternal touchstone will always be “Twin Peaks” – although it’s always difficult to convince my friends to accompany me through the second half of that show’s run.

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  2. Rachael March 1, 2013 at 9:09 am

    I never can ignore a post about buffy, nice blog! Think I pretty much had the same experience of buffy it was my first proper show that I followed ritually and to me it’s the first time that tv had a real film like quality to it, so well written acted, directed (ok the special effects weren’t the best in season 1 but still) and just the quality was and still is brilliant. I love that its still on at least 2 channels on sky tv every day and has been since it ended, long may it last :-).
    It’s my go to show and I’ve never found another to compare to it and what part it played for me back then.
    Also I wish I’d won a Schrute buck

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    • Kate Kulzick March 1, 2013 at 9:27 am

      I always love when I stumble upon a rerun, though by me it doesn’t seem to happen very frequently. And my Schrute buck is pretty awesome, lol, thanks.

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  3. CinemaBuffy March 1, 2013 at 8:39 am

    Hey Kate! It’s the other Kate! This piece is great! Buffy is my favourite television show of all time as well, and I will argue with people about how it is the best TV show ever as well (as long as we’re defining TV as being broadcast and having commercials). I’ve watched it all the way through too many times to count, and I counted it as a personal achievement (even though it really was anything to do with me) when I got to see every major Buffy person except Alyson Hannigan at comic-con a few years ago.
    The eternal optimism, as you put it, is a huge part of the show. One of the my favourite ideas as well is Whedon’s interest in undermining the idea that we want rewards from doing good. There is no transcendent system of morality – we do what’s right because we think it’s right and we thinks it’s worth doing. That’s a way more radical argument than a lot of people see.

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    • Kate Kulzick March 1, 2013 at 8:50 am

      Hey other Kate! Thanks! I’m right there with you- sure, Buffy gets recognition at The Prom (season 3), and it’s lovely. But it’s almost immediately undermined in the season 4 finale and she goes recognition-less over most of the rest of the series. It’s a great point!

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